I’ve always thought it was funny that, while spanking is something to be avoided at all costs when we’re young, so many people seek it out later as a source of pleasure when they’re older. Funny, but not at all surprising. Did you know that there were two separate studies, one done in Illinois and one done in Italy, that both came to the conclusion that spanking is actually good for you? Yep, they determined that spanking raises endorphin levels, which, in turn, can lift your mood.

It’s nice having something you’ve known all along be confirmed by science, huh?

Oh, well, scientific study or no, I’ve always liked spanking. Mostly, I like to spank guys, but I’ve been known to indulge in letting my boyfriend spank me a few times, too, so I know of what I speak here. I know I always feel a lot better after giving (or receiving) a spanking, so it makes sense that other people would feel that way, too. It’s sensual, it’s sexy, but most of all, it’s fun! Sometimes, it can hurt a little, but the human body has an amazing ability to convert a little pain into sexual pleasure once those endorphins get flowing. Before long, your ass will be bright red, and you won’t feel a thing but your throbbing cock.

Being spanked by phone is exciting, too. Nothing quite like being a good sub who’s giving himself a spanking at the direction of his Princess, right? And believe me, I love incorporating spanking into my phone sex calls.

Hi, guys! I’m going to admit something to you that you may have already figured out. But I think I’ll share it, anyway. You know, just in case. I absolutely love fetish phone sex. Pretty much any of the fetishes you can think of are enjoyable for me. I think it’s because there are so many different fetishes out there and then so many different variations on each fetish that there’s really no way to ever get bored with it. There are just infinite ways to enjoy a fetish phone call.

My very first fetish call was foot fetish phone sex. Foot fetish is a fairly common fetish, as I’m sure you all know. It was not my first phone sex call ever, but it was the first fetish I’d dealt with over the phone. I couldn’t help but think while I was participating in this fantasy that it was amazing how one simple thing could control a man so completely. I think that’s when the love affair began.

After the foot worship call, I branched out to some other fetishes. These calls ran the gamut from stocking fetish to giantess to things that are awfully obscure. But the one thing that stayed constant was that no matter what the fetish was, the fetishist had an interesting spin on it, unlike any I’d ever encountered before.

So I guess it goes without saying that I love it when my kinky phone sex calls turn toward fetish play, which they so often do. What’s YOUR fetish, guys?

Hey, boys! It’s your sexy Kink Advisor again, here to talk to you today about one of my favorite topics…tease and denial! I wouldn’t be at all surprised if it’s one of your favorites too. Seems I get a whole bunch of you every week who want to be teased and denied and probably even giggled at, too.

In fact, the thing that inspired me to write this blog today is a tease and denial phone sex call I just finished with a caller whom we’ll refer to as “t.” Poor t. is locked in chastity for the foreseeable future. And do you think for a moment that I was going to have pity on him and use our time together to talk about the weather or politics or something equally unsexy, so he wouldn’t get a hard-on in his chastity device?

You’re crazier than you look if you think the answer to that question is “Yes.”

He lives with his keyholding Mistress, but she’s out of town for the next couple of weeks. She’s given him instructions to be teased every day for at least 30 minutes while she’s gone. He can use any medium to do this, and today, he chose prick teasing phone sex with me. Oh, t., you poor denied thing.

Since his cock was locked up, I didn’t get to finish our session with my favorite ending, a ruined orgasm. But I still had a lot of fun with pure orgasm denial. I expect to hear from t. again before too long….

What can I say? Being a cock tease is my nature, LOL!

So, after a lovely phone conversation with a special shrinking fetish friend of mine (and plans to probably do a blog about it anyway), here I am with some fresh inspiration. The Shrinking Fetish. It’s a tad bit different than what we do on giantess island, but close. I like shrinking fetishes so much because sometimes I get to add a little fantasy aspect to the scenario. An evil witch, a dark potion, and magically you’re shrinking down to a more … managable size.

However, my new friend talked about the gradual shrinking, where it happens over a certain amount of time, maybe one or two inches a week / month / whatever. And how it would be a total mind fuck if at first I wore heels all the time, then gradually started reducing my heel size as he shrunk, so that one day when I put the stilettos back on, it was such a drastic increase that it would be completely disarming. I loved the idea! of course, that only works to an extent. I’m sure you’d notice after a certain point, that you were becoming increasingly smaller – but of course by that time there’d be nothing you could do to stop what was already in motion. There’d be no cure, no reversal – just you, in your shrunken form, and me doing what I wanted with you. Toying with you, playing with all your tiny man parts . . . maybe, depending on your size, you’d even get to explore places you never thought was possible in your much larger state.

I wonder what ideas we could come up with! I look forward to taking care of all your shrinking fetish needs =)

Do you live across the pond? Well, let me tell you something. I adore accents and I love listening to them, especially on calls! And while a lot of services only cater to Americans (and sometimes Canadians), don’t worry – we accept all of you sexy men. we can take your calls via phone or skype, and pretty much whatever your fetish … feminization , cum eating or whatever else it may be. All you need is an imagination and a phone (or skype) to get started. Hopefully some of you sexy Brits have been reading my blog and now know that I am 100% accessible to you! I’d love to get to know all you sexy accent boys on a very close and personal basis. So here’s a little inspiration to get you started – I’m just a phone call away! I’d love to have some international phone sex with you.

Also, for you sissies, remember you can go back through my archives for some awesome makeup advice. Just click on the “sissy makeup tips” category and voila! Tons of useful information for you. Just a little refresher reminder for those of you that want to experiment with makeup but don’t know where to start.

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Hey kinksters! Just throwing up a little free audio for you today about last night. Got into a fight with the boy and it was pretty rough, but the silver lining to it all is all the makeup sex. so I’m a little worn out today if you know what I mean =p I don’t think he was ready for the rough spanking he got last night – I told him if he kept it up he’d find himself coerced to suck cock or worse, in captivity! haha.

I’d love to hear about your experiences with makeup sex – or when your partner really got revenge on you some way, especially if it involves spanking and punishment! Were you teased into her clothing? Maybe she brought home a nice creampie for you to enjoy from her “better” lover. Perhaps it just involved being tied up and ravaged senselessly. I want to hear from you – either by comment or by phone call – and maybe we can have some rough “makeup” sex of our own =)

Anyway, enjoy!