Qualities of your perfect Mistress
How do you plan to find your perfect mistress? There are quite a few things to consider before the first time you have a distance domination session. Make sure you have really thought about what turns you on in particular. It is very important for you to be able to articulate what needs to be included in the conversation. Perhaps a Femdom, who is bitchy gets your juices flowing. Teasing and sensual can be very sexy as well, or anywhere in between. A mistress’ tone of voice can often seal the deal, or turn you off, making it impossible to enjoy the fantasy. Listen to some audios to find a pleasing, hypnotic sound.
On the path to submission
Once you have made the decision to pursue a female led relationship, learn the rules of being a submissive. It is good to articulate limits and boundaries in the beginning. Neither one of you want to venture into territory that is repugnant to the other. This will not only be a turn off, it can break the trust that needs to be built between the Mistress and submissive. Discuss these before beginning any play session for the first time. Be sure to be very clear about how and when you will submit. If you have committed to being on cam , naked for Mistress at 11:30pm, then do it!!! If you are late, it is only right that you incur a punishment. Endure it and do not complain.
In your search, here at LDW to find the perfect Mistress, we have a wonderful questionnaire that can help simplify the matching process. You can go to: https://www.myperfectmistress.com/ to put down all the important details you require.I personally encourage this, as it does let a Mistress know what you want before getting on the phone. Take the time to do this and enjoy your call!!!
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Your right about boundaries as it’s very important to know what your limits are before selecting the perfect mistress. Safety first!!! I looked at each and every profile before selecting my mistress. I’m not into hardcore at all. More sensual. I’ve yet to do call with you but would love to! And yes I would be submissive with you as I would want you to turn me into a cream puff sissy by making me wear a bra/panty along with makeup/lipstick,ankle/knee high boots with leggings/yoga pants/dresses.
Peter, we would have a wonderful time, I’m sure. I have some of the best calls with my sissies. We have a lot in common, but they need a little guidance. Sounds like you have a good wardrobe going. I hope you like high heels too!
I do have lots of women’s clothes and collection is only growing. I’d love to do call with you! Did Ms Cindy tell you what she did to me? I know she said she had no choice that she was and id had no say in matter. she was going to tell all the mistresses.
No Peter Ms. Cindy didn’t tell me what she did. Was it humiliating or embarrassing though? I’m sure you would be a wonderful creampuff sissy for me.
Yes it was Ms Lena. 🙁 She caught me wearing her bra/panty set with pumps and lipstick on, What I didn’t know is that she had it all on tape and said she has no choice to tell all the mistresses. She has me in bra/panty set all the time now.