When people in the BDSM community think of a switch, they automatically imagine a woman who can be dominant, as well as submissive. I apply that term to myself in another way, since I am not that kind of switch. I am a naturally dominant woman, despite my calm exterior. There is no way to gloss the truth over, I want what I want! While I might use soft sell tactics to get a submissive to bend their will, they still end up under my thumb.
I can switch from being sensually dominant, to a wicked mistress who loves to dole out punishment and agony. Whatever I give you, it will be done as I smirk, reducing you to a worthless lump of clay.Remember you are here to conform to my desires. Those men out there looking for their submissive sweet heart will be disappointed if they are looking for Miss Lena to switch. Sensual doesn’t equal soft!!!
I can completely relate to this, Miss Lena! It’s funny how some callers will confuse ‘sensual’ and ‘soft’, not realizing that sensual Mistresses are faaaar from being pushovers! It’s not an ‘easy A’ in class…you’re still going to have to work, earn and take your lumps if needed!
So true. Sensual means sexy, but not soft. It means I’ll kick your ass and smile doing it!
Hee hee! Perfect way to put it, Miss Lena! As I like to say, Iron Hand, Velvet Glove. lol
Another vote of “agree”, Miss Lena! Sometimes I worry that I’m giving a false impression with the name of My blog, even though there are many posts on it that explain “sensual” does not mean “I’ll still suck your cock”. lol Nor does it mean, “I’ll still let you fuck Me like I’m your slut, it’s just that I’ll be on top!” *giggle*
Nothing at all against switches. It’s just that maybe W/e need a glossary so some boys aren’t fooled!
Yes, Miss Rachel they need to understand “switch” doesn’t equal submissive.
We always need the guidance of a superior woman Miss Lena! *squirm*
N.B. – I have to inform you that this is one of a series of Mistress blog comments I’m having to make, in order to earn a release.