Strictness is a very subjective thing. For some submissives, a few hard slaps on the ass, along with some harsh words may be considered hardcore. Suffice it to say, another sub may enjoy the humiliation and pain brought on by a barrage of lashes from a mistress wielding a wet cat o’ nine tails. Where do you consider drawing the line?
As a mistress, it is my specific goal to find out exactly where your subspace begins and ends. I like to get it just right , so we both enjoy the perfect level of submissive fun. There are certain fetishes that are suited very well to more strict play. Some bdsm fantasies that work are cbt, humiliation, edging, coerced bi and forced feminization. We can figure out together what the ultimate scenario would be for you.
Do you enjoy being embarrassed in front of mistress’ girlfriends, as the tease, slap and spit on you? Perhaps being paraded around in a tutu, bra and heels on a dog leash is more your speed? Exposing those hairy legs is not pleasing to your mistress, so she sends you to get waxed! Ripping out all that body hair will not be comfortable. If you shed a tear or two, prepare to be defiled in the most sinister ways.
Good topic, Miss Lena! Because every sub is going to be different, Mistresses have their work cut out for them. There are definitely varying degrees of obedience and just how many ‘bad habits’ a submissive has will always come out with the proper exploration. Taking the time is worth it, because once a Mistress knows what she needs to, the real fun can begin!