Have you ever been lucky enough to enjoy an orgasmic, electric partner swapping scenario with someone? If you have, I don’t have to explain just what allure it holds. Seeing your partner enjoy another person’s body while you do the same has its own rewards. The two of you may enjoy being together, but exploring sex outside the confines of a relationship can be very freeing.
There certainly was a period of time from the 1970’s until the 1990’s that swinging was extremely popular. Now, we are more likely to hear about a husband or boyfriend being cuckolded. It is not always the poor, pathetic small-dicked male either. Men who could please their women choose to see them satisfied by one, or several, men as they watch.
Is there a reason why one practice has surpassed the other? Maybe the perception that a woman deserves to be satisfied has become more prevalent? Is it more widely accepted that women own their sexuality and enjoy it as much as men? Perhaps more men are willing to take a submissive role and sit, or kneel, on the sidelines.
Whatever the reasons, both practices hold value for the people who engage in them. Personally, I like both. What do you think? Let’s talk about your preferences for kink on a call.
Interesting post, Ms. Lena. In my experience, cuckolding is experiencing a huge surge in popularity. I get more calls about it than ever before. More of my real time clients admit that they’re cuckolds. And in the fetish communities that I participate in, many couples have joined or come out as cuckold couples. For someone who’s been in the kink scene for over a decade, it’s a fascinating (and sexy) phenomenon. I’m not sure what the explanation is, but I’m definitely enjoying seeing its popularity spread.
Yes, Ms. Marlena! It is great that it’s gaining in popularity. So many men get excited at the prospect of their partner getting sexual satisfaction somewhere else.
I am wondering two things – is size always related to a mans desire or need to be cuckolded and do women truly always, always, prefer well endowed? Is that really, really, really true. It sort of seems so but….
I don’t think all men who are smaller feel they NEED to be cuckolded, but I think that women who truly enjoy sex want a man who fills them up. How well-endowed a man a woman prefers is subjective. To one woman 8 inches my be big, to another 10 is big. This boils down to what a woman likes.
There are so many different types of cuckolds out there it isn’t even funny. I think at the core of their beliefs is the idea that their wife is an object of desire that should be not only appreciated but fulfilled at every opportunity. And whether it’s cucking or swinging, it’s ALL super hot!
I like both Ms. Alexis and I think each one does offer a man the chance to see his wife or girlfriend as the object of desire.
Ms. Lena, I really enjoyed reading this post! And I wonder, too, if cuckolding is the new swinging? I guess I hadn’t really thought about it quite this way before. But like Ms. Marlena, I also get a ton of cuckolding calls. And they are some of my most favorite sessions! But I must admit I like your theory of women owning their sexuality and the men in their lives making certain that they are as satisfied as possible! 🙂
I get quite a few cuckolding calls as well, and men are very excited by the thought of their partner being pleased by someone else!
Ms. Lena, I like the saying “What goes around, comes around.” I think it has become more important to please a woman sexually and I think women are becoming more communicative in this desire. That could put a lot of pressure on a guy, and if participating in some kinky stuff will keep his partner happy, he’ll do it. Plus, many guys get aroused by just the thought of this, so they are happy to oblige. Great post!
You’re right Ms. Meredith, I think for some men it takes some pressure off of them and adds to the pleasure factor.