More than just sex
Have you ever thought that there was more to masturbation(solo sex) or intercourse(sex with another) than a bunch of thrusting, tugging and moaning? Well, there is and it can improve your orgasms and general health. Maybe a change of opinion in regard to your body and sex itself will help. Begin to realize, that no matter how it looks, your body is a temple. Think of all the wonderful things you are able to do with your body. When you really think about it, the body is an amazing machine!! Your penis is a part of that machine that responds voluntarily and involuntarily.With Tantric masturbation we want to focus on the voluntary action of the penis.
Tantric masturbation
To improve your staying power, you must harness your chi or life force energy. This energy can be controlled and manipulated as you masturbate. When you begin to stroke your cock, make sure that you are in a relaxed state, preferably on the bed. No restrictive clothing or pressing engagements should interrupt you. Use a nice oil or lubricant on yourself, but refrain from using too much. You don’t want to be so slippery, that your grip is hindered. As far as how to grip your cock, relax your hand, wrist and fingers. There is no cramping in masturbation! When you begin slowly stroking yourself, pay attention to your breathing. Breathe deeply and evenly, feeling the connection to the breath and penis. The energy you will feel in your pelvic region will begin to grow as you breathe.
Getting close
The focused energy that you direct into your pelvis, buttocks and penis will multiply into such pleasurable sensations. You will feel yourself getting closer to orgasm, but the point is NOT to let yourself go over the edge. Remember, you’re trying to learn to prolong pleasure. That is the whole point. For those of you who need a little encouragement to try Tantric masturbation, I want you to listen to this recording https://youtu.be/ghqtpjxsNpY. Sometimes, it helps to have guidance.
Dear Mistress Lena,
I am into orgasm denial and guided masturbation. I agree with everything, which you describe in this post, since I have experienced – many times – a Tantric state of mind, which transcends the pleasure of orgasm. Tantric masturbation and keeping those balls filled with cum are the way to go for me, because no chi is wasted. Thank you for a great post!
Dear Cum Filled Balls…so many men discount the rewards of delaying or denying orgasms. I’m sure you would agree that after teasing yourself for a great amount of time, when you’re ready to explode, it’s MUCH more intense!